It takes only one

More email to Richard:

"About the question that was the object of some of our discussions: "whose fault is it?", like whose fault is it if it did not work between us, I think (I know) that we failed not because one of us did not manage to love the other, but because neither you nor I managed to love the other. I think that if I had managed to love you OR if you have managed to love me we would have succeeded.

Why? Because love works this way, it reflects itself, it is a mirror. Love (practiced with skills) calls for love, drives love, like an immense pump, a virtuous circle. One person is enough to drive the spiral in the right direction.

So, our failure is entirely my fault, yes – but it also is entirely your fault. I am almost sure that you know this.

But of course this is of no importance. It is what it is and it is perfect the way it is. One only has to open one’s eyes and SEE this perfection."

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[lynn mccosh]

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