My boyfriend and I just got and started using a beautiful book: The Art of Sexual Ecstasy, by Margo Anand, "the most comprehensive and clearly written work on contemporary Tantric sex, an exceptional detailed program for both the beginner and the advanced practitioner." We also find it exceptionally comprehensive and well-written.
Hee hee yes, time to seriously embrace love-making as the highest spiritual practice that it is, a direct path to body-mind-spirit ecstasy! The book starts with reminding us of the basics: that the key to loving someone else fully is to fully love oneself.
We are planning to make this book a wedding gift to all our friends who are getting married!!