June 18, 2003

Oh NO, NOT religion!

Reading the Celestine Prophecy has made me somewhat restless. I write to my friend Sasha from New York, who I suspect is "on to something": last time we met, he was just back from a week-end with, said he, "a very good teacher", and the week-end seemed to have on him an effect similar to that which this book has just had on me now, so I feel I should give it a shot! I understand that by teacher, he means "teacher of life", "wise man", i.e. someone who could somehow help me understand further "what this is all about". I ask him: "So, who is that teacher you mentioned?"

He sends me an internet link. I click on the link and…. What a shock! I think: "Oh NO, NOT religion! This can’t be!" The link points to Lama Ole Nydhal, a Buddhist teacher from Denmark who has greatly contributed to bringing Tibetan Buddhism into the West, by setting up many buddhist centers there. Never did I suspect that his "teacher" would have had anything to do with religion. Moment of panic. So, is this where the "path" leads to then? Religion…? Is this where it all ends up? I am appalled at what is going on, almost ashamed, wish I had not started seeking….

However, I get over my aversion for anything religious, and decide to give it an honest try, as, after all, I know nothing about Buddhism: I order from Amazon the book from Lama Ole Nydhal that he recommends...

February 21, 2004

The finger and the moon, the river and the raft

One of the most used metaphors in Buddhism (especially Zen Buddhism) is that of the finger and the moon. It warns against mistaking the finger which points to the moon, i.e. your teacher, guru, teaching, religion, etc, and the moon, i.e. that towards which the finger points (enlightened state, Buddha-nature, God-consciousness, etc). Another popular metaphor for it is the river and the raft: once you have crossed to the other shore, you don’t need the raft anymore.

As I start to mingle with "spiritual circles" (especially Buddhists), I am actually surprised at how many of them do not seem to have integrated this most basic teaching, which says: do not cling to the teaching! To my amazement, a number of the Buddhists I meet, from this or that particular flavor of Buddhism, seem convinced that their particular chosen path (not only Buddhism but their particular school, or teacher!) is the only path -- and do not understand what I mean with my finger and moon parable.

I suppose it is not dissimilar to the phenomenon of transference in psychotherapy...

March 02, 2004

An urge to re-read the Bible

I write to my friend Kathrin:

"I have this major urge to re-read the Bible, the life of Jesus etc. Like I think this guy really "got it" and that the message he left is HUGE, HUGE. Like, Buddha was really good at communicating his insights in a written format, while Jesus did this major "real life demo" of "what is".

I really want to read it again (I'm sure it will be much more intense now that I have "awakened") but I don't have a Bible here..."

And to my friend Sasha:

"By the way, I guess because I was raised more or less in the Christian tradition, I have all these thoughts/feelings about Jesus, the sheer power of what he demonstrated (or, of what his story demonstrates). This is quite HUGE when you think of it. I am thoroughly moved by the story. I’ve actually just ordered the movie Jesus of Nazareth from Franco Zeffirelli, which I saw many times as a kid (much less violent than Passion of Christ I suppose), and am going to get a Bible. It's like I start understanding the story much better (or, even, completely?) now that I am "awakened", so I am a bit curious. And I see the disaster that Christianity (and a large number of religions) has been, mostly. Yet, I also sort of see the point, and why it unfolded the way it did."

May 13, 2004

Do you believe in God?

It have always found it quite unhelpful, how people will say "I believe in God" vs. "I don’t believe in God". What does it mean? I would find it more helpful if people would simply say "I know God" vs. "I don’t know God", like people say "I know mathematics" and "I don't know mathematics". Especially, this would allow those who don’t know God and wish to know Her to learn from those who know God, and those who know God to teach to those who don’t know God and wish to know Her (which is the way things work in the East).

Email to my friend Chris who told me today that he believes in God, which is, he argued, one step closer to knowing God than not knowing God:

"Believing is not one step away from knowing. Not knowing is closer to knowing than believing. I think believing precludes from knowing - most believers I know, don't know. Why? Not knowing triggers the cognitive functions of your brain, believing does not. In order to know you need to be INQUIRING and OPEN -- it seems that believing may preclude these 2 attitudes. In order to know you need a STRONG DESIRE. Believing (static) precludes from desire (dynamic). No desire, no knowing.

I have never believed in God or in anything else for that matter, in anything I did not Know. Now I feel that I Know God / that I perceive the Unmanifested. I think that not believing helped me get there. What I had always is an insatiable desire to Know. If you have the desire to Know, then you will Know.

"Ask, and it will be given you. Seek, and you will find. Knock, and it will be opened for you." Matthew 7:7.

So, do you believe in God or do you sense that there is something which is not manifested as form? What is it exactly that you sense? In what instances do you sense it the most? Dig in! It's all there - trust me :-) - it's been right here with you the whole time..."

Another way to say it:

"Faith is the submission of that part of the mind which has not seen God to the part which has" – Simone Weil

November 10, 2004

To speak, or not to speak, about God

My friend Kathrin sent me an email where she shared with me how hard it is to share with people the "mystic view", and especially how the word "God" turns people off almost systematically. I reply:

"Yes, you gotta NOT throw the whole thing in people's face, it doesn't work. Only when they're ready. You gotta go really step by step, i.e. figure out what they need and give it to them.

Especially, the word "God" is a complete no-no in our society (France, Germany, etc, Europe – or among intellectuals / white-collar people in general, unless you know that they share your understanding of all this, which generally takes some time, or knowing the people very well. If you say "God" and they think "religion" (and most people will), then you're screwed. NEVER mention God if you think they'll think that it has to do with religion. You do NOT need the pointer God to explain things – look at the Buddhists. You have to learn to understand what words will work with what kind of people. And give them JUST what they need, or even less. This is an art :-)

Give them something that can immediately improve their lives – often it does not involve TALKING actually but just DOING, providing an example. If they find peace and joy and love in you, they'll be attracted like flies and try to understand how it is you have that and they don't. If you exhibit anything less than complete peace and joy and love and light, then people will not listen to a word you say."

Later:

"I think a key to not trigger resistance is to avoid by all means the word "God" – a lot of people in the Christian world have been bruised by that word. Easier to point to the moon using the "consciousness" or "evolution" fingers. I was uncomfortable with the word God myself until, say, just about 6 months ago – and I'm cool with it now, but I know most people are not cool with it at all, so careful...

Ken Wilber is a very, very good author for people like us vs. "God" talk: he introduces us to the trans-rational/trans-logic using the rational/logic approach (vs. what most people associate with pre-rational/pre-logic)."

February 18, 2005

Inter-religious dialogue

Shambhala just released an interesting new essay from Ken Wilber on "the common heart" of all religions. It is the foreword to an apparently not-yet-published book called The Common Heart, an Experience of Inter-Religious Dialogue, edited by Netanel Miles-Yepez. The whole text is well worth your time, but here's an excerpt:

"In 1984, Father Thomas Keating invited a broad range of spiritual teachers from virtually all of the world’s great wisdom traditions - Christian, Buddhist, Hindu, Indigenous, Islamic - to gather together at St. Benedict’s Monastery in Snowmass, Colorado. (...) The Common Heart is the first report of that meeting and several subsequent ones with the same group. It is in almost every respect a rather amazing document. First, and especially, in that it could and did happen; second, and as much, in the results, both startling and reassuring simultaneously. (...)

As for these points of agreement, what are we to make of them? The first one is: "The world's religions bear witness to the experience of Ultimate Reality, to which they give various names." I ask because in today's world, there looms a very difficult issue that simply must be addressed: why is it that, at first glance, the world's religions - or the ones the public hears about on the news - seem to be the major source of human conflict, when, on the other hand, dialogues like these show that spirituality could be the primary source of peace among humankind? The disparity between the former and the latter is so large, so jarring, so hard to reconcile, and is made all the worse when beheadings in the name of God occur weekly, bombings in the name of God occur daily, and no world religion has a history totally free of such. I believe that unless we can find a way to understand and differentiate those two extremes of religion, both will be deeply suspect in today’s world.

Let me suggest one way to think about this, and let me give a frightfully abbreviated version (please see The Eye of Spirit for a more detailed look). Studies in developmental psychology over the last few decades show that individuals tend to undergo an unmistakable trajectory of human growth and development, from pre-conventional stages to conventional stages to post-conventional, or from pre-rational to rational to trans-rational, or from egocentric to ethnocentric to worldcentric. Without pigeonholing anybody or any tradition - because people and traditions can span the entire spectrum - there is a world of difference between those who are acting in egocentric, preconventional, and pre-rational ways, and those acting in postconventional, worldcentric, and trans-rational ways. The latter, having developed and befriended rationality, now transcend and include it; whereas the former are not acting beyond reason, but beneath it.

It is the bane of contemplative dialogues such as these that in the common mind, preconventional and postconventional are lumped together, and pre-rational and trans-rational are unceremoniously equated, when they are quite literally poles apart. But for today's conventional, rationally-minded individual, the world's great contemplative and trans-rational mystics and realizers are indistinguishable from irrational fanatics or those seized with infantile oceanic fantasies.

This is not only sad, it is a cultural catastrophe of the first magnitude. And yet, until religion itself learns convincingly how to convey these differences and increasingly focus on the best in its postconventional, transpersonal, and contemplative dimensions, religion for the world at large will likely remain either the province of prerational fanatics or rational cynics. Transrational dialogues such as these - which embrace rationality fully and then go beyond it into the mystery of the divine and the obviousness of the ultimate - will never gain the deep appreciation and even reverence they deserve.

The points of agreement in the following dialogues do indeed spring from that deep space of trans-rational openness and contemplative transparency, where the human heart stands naked to the divine, discovering at the end of that journey into the present a dividing line between them almost impossible to find, a gateless gate to that I AMness that only alone is. (...)"

April 01, 2005

THE book I've been looking for: Essential Spirituality

I just started today to read Essential Spirituality: the 7 Central Practices to Awaken Heart and Mind, that Eric, one of my readers, recommended a couple of weeks ago. What a beautiful book! This is THE book I have been looking for ever since I started this journey... One more book that I thought had to be written, only to discover that it has been written already! Which reminds me that helping diffuse to a wider audience all this precious information is one of my life's purposes.

It basically highlights the 7 common practices that each of the so-called 7 world's "great religions" (i.e. the monotheisms of Judaism, Christianity and Islam, and the Asian religions of Hinduism, Buddhism, Taoism and Confucianism) have offered, and it is filled with exercises, tools, techniques, stories, and practical advice to help one implement those seven practices into one's life and unleash the promise of post-conventional human maturity: a more fulfilled and satisfying life, more joy, more love, a higher sense of purpose, less suffering, higher ethics, etc.

I'm just at page 28, but I've been underlining with my pencil almost every word that I've read so far. This book is going to be a mess! :-) I can't even start quoting from it. Instead, I place the highest recommendation on this book, and will be ordering a bunch and giving them away to my friends! Thank you Eric for this precious recommendation! Just a quick preview:

The author's description of the "perennial philosophy", i.e. the common core of all religious wisdom across all times and cultures:

  1. "There are two realms of reality: the everyday realm, and a far more subtle and profound realm: the realm of consciousness, Spirit, Mind, or Tao
  2. Human beings partake of both realms
  3. Human beings can recognize their divine spark and the sacred ground that is its source
  4. Realizing our spiritual nature is the highest goal and greatest good of human existence."

Now what are the seven practices detailed in the book:

  1. "Transform your motivation: reduce craving and find your soul's desire
  2. Cultivate emotional wisdom: heal your heart and learn to love
  3. Live ethically: feel good by doing good
  4. Concentrate and calm your mind
  5. Awaken your spiritual vision: see clearly and recognize the sacred in all things
  6. Cultivate spiritual intelligence: develop wisdom and understand life
  7. Express spirit in action: embrace generosity and the joy of service."

Again, this is a practical guide to accompany one on their spiritual journey with a set of practices and suggestions on how to implement them in our daily lives, drawing from some key spiritual traditions on humankind! A priceless gem!

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